My boyfriend left me yesterday! We have been together for almost 4 years and have a beautiful 2 yr 8 mth old daughter.
I have not been happy in a while, and today while having a little disagreement I decided to tell SO this and told him that someday soon we needed to sit down and talk about it. You see my SO has this habit of never talking about our problems, he'd rather just ignore them....where as I would rather discuss them so they don't become bigger problems.
Well, when I told him this he again blew me off...and the fight started. I let it out, told him how I needed him to help more around the house, and with Danika and that we needed to discuss having another baby, because although I know he wants to wait until we have a bigger house, I want to have another one before I'm too old!
Well, this is when he yells at me that he doesn't want another one and I'll never have another baby with him. Well this just broke my heart because I was really up front with him before we started going out and told him not to bother going out with me if he didn't want kids-plural because I wanted up to 6. During the last 4 years he has always told me we could have another child, and now all of a sudden with no discussion its NEVER-I feel deceived, conned, ect...and I told him so.
Well we keep fighting and all the problems he'll never discussed finally come out...and what does he do, tells me that if I think I can do better than him, then go for it cause he's through-and he left! I thought maybe he had only left to blow off some steam, but a couple of hours later he came back, packed up some of his things and left!
Its funny, I'm not really upset. The way things have been lately I think I would rather it be over. I love him but I want a partnership and if he can't give one to me than I would rather make a life on my own with Danika.
